Finding out things.... there's two sides to every opinion :-)

I've been researching an Unknown soldier from World War 2 and I'm discovering soooooo much more than one soldier's life.  I got the "list" of things I was told I needed, to write a complete story, you know, the usual stuff? Immediate family, date of birth, place if you can find it, date he enlisted (not necessary, but good to have) unit he was assigned to and a little on his life in the military.  

Well..... found all that, and some!

My absolute amazing realization came with the discovery of the replacement soldiers.  Somehow, in the back of your head, you know, if 200 soldiers go in to battle as a unit, and 30 get killed over time, they will have to be replaced, and  you figure it happens like it does on base... somebody gets orders to show up at a particluar base at a certain time, to get to know his fellow soldiers and carry on the tasks of the unit...But in war time? How would that even work?  

I've come to find out, there's the perception of soldiers already in battle of what the FNG is likely to be like, there's the expectation of said FNG of the story he's been told what it's going to be like, and then there's reality.  Actually, I feel sorry for both camps.

 I haven't figured out yet, how the recruitment of replacements really worked. I hope to, but it's not my first priority for the story.   The general road for a replacement soldier was:  enlistment or draftee, basic training, specialized training, assigned to a Replacement Battalion, where they were kept until there was a request for their particular skill. The Replacement Depots were a whole different way of army life. The soldiers were stationed at these camps and pulled as needed to go to units who were so depleted they almost couldn't function as a whole. The replacements often didn't have the opportunity to bond like regular units. They just happened to be waiting in the same place. 

These soldiers didn't know what had preceeded the current situation, or what was in store for the unit they were joining. Some were eager to actually finally "get to work and do what they signed up and trained for",  rubbing the soldier who had been fighting for years, was tired of what he had seen and juist wanted to go home, the wrong way.  

"Just imagine what it would have been like as a battle worn soldier to see these new soldiers come into your unit replacing the friend killed last week. You're tired, been fighting for godknowshowlong already, mourning comrades you've's fought beside and went through hell with, and from the orders you've seen and others you have heard about, there's no real relief in sight.Then, this replacement enters the unit. They don't fit in, because they haven't "been there" so you feel like they can't possible understand what the unit is about. Because of the rate you've already lost brothers in arms, you don't even bother to learn their names half the time. You don't know this new soldier, don't know if you can trust him to have your back, don't know if he'll be around long enough to fit in so it's easier to assume that they don't and never will belong. What you DO know, is that he's not the guy that was next to you in a foxhole and shared his ration with you, because you lost yours, and he's not the one who dragged you out of the foxhole seconds befora a grenade hit it. And so, after losing friends repeatedly, some soldiers simply stopped investing emotionally in newcomers. It wasn't always hostility, more often it was self preservation. There is a reason a lot of veterans don't talk about their time in combat. The emotional price is too high.

From the soldier from the replacement roster the view is one of not understanding that the cameraderie they heard about from returning soldiers is often non existent for them. Their inexperience was often seen less as a natural part of the learning curve  and transition from training to "real life" but as a liability, leaving some of them to fend for themselves to cope with this new world they now live in. 

Replacement soldiers were mostly just out of training before they were put up in a camp, waiting to be deployed. Because they didn't know when or where they were going to deploy, there was little hope of keeping up with everything that went on at the front, and they weren't able to anticipate what would come their way when they were sent to a unit. They would be put in a well oiled combat unit where soldiers knew what to expect from the soldier next to him, because they had been fighting and surviving with them, often for the duration of the war. They arrived expecting the camaraderie they had heard about from veterans, only to discover that trust could only be earned and not easily at that.

 Many accounts describe replacements being treated more like temporary help than new members of the unit, to be tolerated, rather than fully integrated. Because a lot of them hadn't seen action, and especially towards the end of the war, they were sometimes looked at as unfit, "otherwise they would have already been fighting". Until they proved themselves, replacements were often given the less desirable duties and were expected to earn their place within the unit and sometimes that would carry significant risk, reinforcing the feeling of not being full members of the unit.  

In reality, both groups were dealing with circumstances the other could not fully understand. Combat veterans were dealing with what they had seen and endured while replacements were trying to find their footing in the hostile, almost alien environment of the battlefield.

Some replacements had spent weeks or even months waiting for assignment before being sent to a combat unit. By the time they arrived, they were expected to adapt quickly to the realities of the battlefield and to seamlessly fit into groups that had often been fighting together for months or years. Many succeeded. Some struggled. But regardless of the outcome, they were being asked to learn the difference between training and combat under the most difficult conditions imaginable.

I feel bad for either side, but mainly for the replacement, who had registered for service at the beginning of the war, but because he had family responsibilities, a job that was considered critical or simply because others were ahead of him,  he'd been passed over until he was needed and he probably expected not to be needed at all at that point. Then, years into the war, when the need for manpower surpasses the enlistment numbers, he's being called up.  

He leaves behind the very responsibilities that kept him home before. After training, he waits until he's called up outright or moved closer to the fighting for quick deployment when needed, and he waits some more. Sometimes he's waited weeks or months, moving through a system that tracks him carefully but often describes him simply as "the soldier" rather than by name. In the reports and statistics, he becomes one of the nameless thousands moving through the replacement system. 

Then he's assigned to a unit and life as an active duty soldier begins. He expects to find his place in a world that was already functioning without him. If he's lucky, he has time to prove he can fit in, if he's not, he will stay on the outskirts. 

If fate is extremely cruel, he gets killed before he secures his place in his new unit, and he ends up nameless, again, but this time in a cemetery, thousands of miles away from his family and loved ones, with only 2 things. A marker that reads "Known but to God" and a file that depicts his journey from the battlefield to that cemetery. Everything from that journey is preserved, except who the soldier was. He has no name, his family does not know his whereabouts, there's just his name on a memorial tablet somewhere and in the office of the cemetery where he rests, in a file, is that designation: x-unknown. 


June 3, 2026

Information found..

and I haven't been able to do much with it yet, because...soooo tired,  but wanted to share 😀 

On the way back from Night Lights at Ouwehand zoo, a friend an I went and looked for any sign of the temporary cemetery at Molenhoek, and actually found 2 monuments. I went there on a whim because a fellow researcher (With waaaaaayyyyy more experience in researching soldiers) had mentioned where one temporary cemetery had been, and gave me a more or less place to look. From the information I received, I didn't expect an actual memorial since he hadn't mentioned one, but figured I "map" the site, for use in Story behind the Stars, as a  reference point. While checking googlymaps to see if I could glean anything from the satellite photo's, I stumbled upon an actual marked monument. This one was shared between the 82nd Air Borne and 1st Canadian Army.

It was the perfect day for cemetery hunting.... heavy fog :-) 

So, the "unknown" one, was actually really easy to find. The information I was given of where the cemetery used to be, was "behind the brewery De Raaf, in Molenhoek" And taking that information I scoured maps and figured, if I drive down the street running right behind the estate, I will either find something, or I won't. At the very least, I can take a picture of the plot behind the estate as indication where it probably was. 

Soooo..... It's in Molenhoek 🫠 behind the estate and sits on the corner of Hoogenhofseweg and Molenstraat. You access it by taking the Molenstraat from the Rijksweg in Molenhoek. The spot was so, so special. While we were there, 3 other people stopped at the memorial, not just because it was there, but because they were looking for it.... 



The inscription reads:
Here rested the remains of 637 gallant soldiers and airmen of the United States and British Armed Forces in the fall and winter of 1944 They gave their lives to free The Netherlands of Nazi tyranny



On the way to the second monument, we passed a marker for the Liberation Route, and (If I interpreted the information right) it looked to be the ninth marker on the route, so that's something I'll have to dig into a little more.....    
Darn.... more research! 🤣




The second monument also lay within the fields, a little bit further down the road from the Liberation Route Marker.








I couldn't figure out what I was feeling. On the one hand there was the "happy" because I had tangible evidence where the cemeteries had been, and on the other there was the crushing sense of sadness because of the lives lost in liberation of the country of my birth.

The second part of the day was spent at the Liberation Museum in Groesbeek. The building is shaped like the canopy of an open parachute. As we were told by someone at the museum, this shape was chosen, because the museum was built on the drop zone of Operation Market Garden. It was an eye opener, for sure. If you are ever in the area, even if you are not a history fan, go visit. It is well worth the time. It's not really big, but it gives the Readers Digest version of the war starting at the end of World War I, with an open ending as to current affairs. 

Going thru the gift shop, I found a book on the temporary cemeteries in the area, and that's where the "haven't been able to do anything with it yet" part comes in 😏  There is SO much information in this book, that I know I will use it for several soldiers in my Stories behind the Stars research list.

This is all I wanted to share for right now, so

Don't forget to hug a loved one, tightly!

Love and hugs,

Pauli

February 9, 2026

Still not sleeping, not sorry......

I Did sleep, a whole six hours last night. As a friend pointed out, for me, that's almost a coma. ROFL!!!  All kidding aside, I don't remember anything between 11 o'clock last night and 4.30 this morning, and I'm full of vinegar, so I have to assume I spent it sleeping.... Right?

 I came home yesterday around 3 and have been buried on the couch with nothing more than my laptop, a binder with information to sort thru and a pen and notepad, for those quick notes I don't want to open a pages document for, nor could my laptop handle the load.... She's only 11 years old, give her a break :-)

I've been jumping thru websites trying to find all the parts I want to incorporate into the Story behind the Star memorials. I plan on writing them on the newly "accounted for" Unknowns Soldiers, so I'm trying to find the "filling" between their last mission and being accounted for, which needs different information than I usually try to find, hense, the scouring of the internet.... and  

I HAVE FOUND SO MUCH GOOD SHIT!!!! For now, I've been skimming and saving. A LOT of saving, and bookmarking.  I know I should slow down and put stuff away as I find it, but the way my brain functions (on rubberbands and rabbitfluff currently) I won't remember where I was going with any of it, so it's best to do a quick store and sort thru it at a later time. Which will probably translate into "tonight", but who cares..... LOL!

No kidding though, I found a website referencing a book this lady wrote about the temporary cemetery Grand Failly, just south of the French Border from Bastogne, with pictures of the early graves. SO AWESOME! I found several different parts of the NARA website I've never seen, or knew existed, but I'll be visiting. You can bet your boots on that. There's a website that is called "The unwritten record",  I found contact information (VERY dangerous) voor de Army Quartermasters......

I found...... to quote Howard Carter..."Wonderful things!"   and I promise, as soon as I have everything sorted, I'll post the list as "general information - Military" and hope that the internetpolice doesn't yank the links, because there'll be a bunch.

I also found something that made me giggle and shake my head.... When taking pictures at Ardennes Military Cemetery, I saw one cross that read: Here rests in Honored Glory an American Soldier, known but to God.  Now, this puzzled me, because all the others I've registered, read "Comrade in Arms", so it was on my list of questions for when I go back to Ardennes for Section C and D.... While glancing thru the information I was saving, I saw one part that explained it....

On the American Battle Monument site was a section on Stones:  Turns out the wording on the markers for Unknown Soldiers, changed between WW-I and WW-II. It changed from Here Rests in Honored Glory an American Soldier in World War I to Here Rests in Honored Glory a Comrade in Arms....   Soooo, did they find one in a back room somewhere or did someone have the wrong example?  Not sure, but still interesting. I don't mean to be disrespectful, that's not what this is, it just seemed in a sea of like crosses, this one stood out and to find out that it isn't quite correct while everything is regulated within an inch of its life and even the bushes don't dare grow outside of their paramiter ..... just went sideways in my brain..

So, lucky duck who's working the office when I touch down in a couple of weeks.... one less question :-)

August 2, 2025


PUZZLE SOLVED.....

The main puzzle bit, was put in place by the kind help of Ardennes Cemetery.... Thank you Bert for allowing my questions and graciously taking the time to answer.  

While putting pictures with the memorials in Find a Grave I found 2 crosses, side by side and in between was a plaque in the ground with the names of 4 soldiers, their rank and unit.  I took the picture and moved to the next marker, but it kept niggling......



 And anyone that knows me even a little bit, knows that it's a recipe for trouble aka research :-)   

That didn't pan out as hoped, so I contacted the Ardennes Cemetery to see if they could tell me who put the plaque there, and when and why..... 

Received an answer almost immediately. 

- The Soldiers WERE identified  - in hindsight, evident in the inscription omitting " known only to God"

- The remains were comingled and therefor buried together 

- The plaque was put in place when the markers were, between 1947 and 1952.

- The practice is common throughout the ABMC cemeteries - I had not come across one (hence the niggling), but I will be more vigilant on my next visit to Margraten on Friday

SO, I'm happy and going quietly back to researching..... Just wanted to share this real quick

July 28, 2025

Well, that didn't go as planned.....

but it turned out alright.....

Remember I said I was going to get back to the pictures on the 18th, last month? Yeah, never happened. Hit a bit of a slump and didn't get back to it until a couple of days ago.

I put together the edited pictures with the information I already had prepared so I could keep track of the actual picture number for retrieval if anybody asked...... that was a bit more involved than what I thought it would be, so that slowed me up some..... but, it will be worth it, because I now have a better way to track the information, or to add information... Health didn't cooperate, and that slowed me up even more, but... I think I'm possibly, maybe on track again :-) So.... Thursday, I started posting the pictures, and I just got done about 2 hours ago....

Got all memorials "pictured" for Plot A. Weeeeeelllll the ones I took pictures of, anyway, because there's about 30 that I missed as in I missed A WHOLE ROW at a time, so that's going on the next trip.  While posting the pictures, I found there were 2 markers that didn't have a memorial, so I added them, and started the research on the soldiers and this is where I'm happily going to be losing some sleep, because it's a puzzle.....    Let me run you thru my process, such as it is:   

- Between the 2 crosses listing TWO COMRADES IN ARMS was a placque with 4 names, so I started looking for them......  

- DPAA site didn't know any of the 4 surnames names listed, so I started to look around a bit more as to different ways of searching, I searched for the bomb group listed on the placque.... nothing: searched by first name.... again, nothing and just for giggles, I put in an X-number from the list of memorials I was working from, and it came back with a name, and a wealth on intel.  So. one more way to find information :-)   I REALY REALLY R.E.A.L.L.Y! have to yank my leash, here, because now, all I want to do is see what I can find on the few X-numbers that I have, but Back to the intended targ ets.... Since I don't have the X-numbers, I can't find them that way so I'm storing the information for later.

 - Newspaper articles will come next:  Just googled the name, added WW2 to it and waited to see what shook out..... A couple of websites I can add to the research information for general information, (limited)information on the mission they perished on, the name of the bomber, some family members and final resting places were what I found, so that's a lot. Fun and useful stuff and an indication of where I will spending my time as soon as I'm "done" with Plot B!

Now, even though I am happy as a lark with all the information already found, what holds me back from doing anything with it, other than putting it together per Soldier to put with the memorial, eventually, is the fact that they are not mentioned anywhere on the DPAA site. One I can see, if family has not been notified, but all 4 seems a bit awkward.... So tomorrow, I will look into the site a little more, since I'm sure there is more than one feature I've missed discovering :-) 

July 26, 2025 


Ardennes American Cemetery

 Yup! I'm "working" on the third Cemetery that is within driving distance.

David starting mapping the 792 Unknown Soldiers of Ardennes. I didn't realized that he had indeed started, until I saw that he had 182 photo requests logged, so I've got some catching up to do.

At this point, I want to also cover the history of the Cemeteries, so I may add individual pages for each. I'm not sure how many pages I can add to one blog, so they may all end up as their own section on one page, but the intent is, either way, to cover the cemeteries seperate from the hints and tips and the progress of finding things.

 Buuuuuut..... :-)

Ardennes.

I planned and plotted, and postponed, planned some more and postponed, mainly for health reasons, but I finally got to go this week. It was SO GOOD! Every cemetery is the same, as in the solemness, the quiet and the sheer amount on crosses, marking a lost life, and at the same time they all have a different feel in the back ground, making each a different experience.

I actually had help this time. I conned a friend of mine into going with me, and it made the day go by faster. It was not like it was when Mike went with me, and it never will be like that again, but it was nice. It wasn't really hot, which helped, I had actually brought the picnic basket, not just packed it (great help) and because it was the 2 of us, I actually took a break, which made it so that I could actually spend more time.

The sheer number of Unknowns is staggering for this cemetery vs Henri Chapelle and Margraten. David has been putting up memorials every day since May, and last count was a little over half of the Soldiers..... It's a job, for sure, but a job we both do with love. Not just to memorialize those that gave their all, but for the families, so they may know where their loved ones were while not in their care. Some may never be accounted for, and now, they too, will have a place among the fallen on Find a Grave. 

The day started pretty much like I always do. I printed the list of photo requests by section and was going to go down the list, and do my thing, until I realised that there were so many not yet on that list, that it would become a cluster to keep track of the ones "done" vs the ones not plotted yet, so I changed gears for this cemetery. We each took a section, and started at row 7, and just went down the line, photographing the Unknown. We each got one section done, and it took us about 6 hours. Between us, we took 500 pictures, so I'm spending the next couple of weeks editing, cataloging, researching and posting. We did not cover 500 graves, because..... overviews, doubles because the first one got flubbed-up, sights that caught our eyes, and generally getting distracted by something, so, yes.... 500 pictures, not that many markers to post.  

As with Henri Chapelle and Margraten, I enticipate that once all the memorials of the Unknown have a picture, I will have to go back to improve on some of them, but that's ok. It's a nice place to be, and even if it is just not to take pictures, I will visit again, and again.

Check out the hints and tips, because I talked to the Super-Intendant, and learned some new things, which also changes my way of doing research a little.... for the better :-)

For right now, I'm going to the zoo, so I will pick up where I left off, tomorrow, and add that information on research.


July 12, 2025

 

PS:  I forgot to tell you something really cool!  While I was documenting the Unknown Soldiers, a couple came up to me, and started asking questions and it was so gratifying to be able to answer them, give them a little bit of "extra" history about the cemetery and how they came to be, besides the solemness of the place by walking around. As it happens, I was standing at the markter that read: "Here rest in Honored Glory THIRTEEN comrades in arms  Known but to God" when the couple approached me.

I had just gotten to that marker, and it took a couple of double takes when the gentleman asked me how that could be, that there were Thirteen Soldiers buried under one marker..... I'm still not quite over it, to be honest. I DID promise myself that I would find out, if/when they were identified, and to keep track of the newly accounted for on the DPAA website.  I told him, that sometimes, the men found together, were buried in the same grave by the people that initially found them, but also, that the prison-camps would bury their dead prisonors in mass graves, so when the Quartermaster Corps found them, they would try to seperate them, but that was sometimes not an option, and the Soldiers would be transported as a group so there could be an attempt made in identifying them. If that was unsuccessful, the men would be buried together again... With todays DNA testing, and a different methodology for identifying remains, I told them, there is a fair chance that at least some of them will be accounted for, but when that would be, I could not tell. I told them I did not work for the cemetery, and was just an interested volunteer who wanted to do right by the Soldiers who did not get to go home, that I did research for those who asked, and for those accounted for when I could.

 

Counted!

I kinda fell into this rabbit hole thru absolutely no fault of my own...... Yeah, I wouldn't be buying that, either :-)  

But seriously. It never consiously registered that the Unknown Soldiers and those on the Walls of the Missing were still actively persued. I mean, I knew if remains were found, they would be looked at, and identification would be attempted, but that was pretty much the extend of my knowledge and I'm "blaming" my new friend David Zimmerman for enlightening me, and setting me on this path, of wanting to know the stories behind the markers that so heartbreakingly read: 

Comrade in Arms  Known but to God.

You see, he started making memorials for all these soldiers on Find a Grave, and he hit my radar when he entered Henri Chapelle aka my neck of the woods.  I took on the challenge of taking pictures of the markers, and started researching the X-numbers he mentioned on 3 of the markers.  

Aaaaaand that brings me to the rabbit hole! 

In talking to the office at Henri Chapelle, I learned things.... and when I learn things, it's like there's a trapdoor attached, because I want to learn more :-)  So I went to the DPAA website, armed with the list of the Wall of the Missing for Henri Chapelle, to see if the recoveries would mention the grave the now "accounted for" soldiers had occupied. That's when I found out, this particular rabbit hole has junctions, lots of them! :-)

The good part is, that I'm finding more and more websites to share, and ways to research Military records and Soldiers, as well as units.... and I hope that finding all this out, will help me with his next project.... David is putting memorials up for the almost 800 Unknowns in Ardennes Military Cemetery.  I'm doing this happily and voluntarily, with full understanding that it's going to take a lot of time, and I'm quietly freaking out about the scale of it.....  (I have 3 days planned, so far, trying to get as many days in as possible before Fall, since my little slip of a car does not do well on slick (mountain) roads, and the old lady driving it, sometimes does not do well driving in the dark on backroads :-) So I'll be taking a break starting when the sun sets around 5 until spring....  The upside of winter? Lights inside come on early, enhancing the cozyness and the possibility of doing research online and working on putting it in some what of an order :-)

I'm sure if you spent any time on the blog at all, you're already aware....  I get sidetracked easy, sorry.  Back to what you came for :-)

I discovered that a lot of the "accounted for" are from accidental finds. I thinks it's awesome, and completely over the top, that they are identified and brought home after more than 80 years. But it also made me realise how many places don't see a whole lot of human traffic and with 1409 people per square mile in The Netherlands,  1006 in Belgium and 625 for Germany, it all starts to make sense.....  and compared to the US ( 57/Iowa and 94 in general), this continent feels crowded :-) 

So, as a start, I'm trying to findout where the x-numbers are kept, and what information is available for the Unknown Soldiers buried in "my" cemeteries, so I can keep an eye on the accounted for and pass the information on to David to update the memorials, or slip the information in as part of the posted picture.... If you know, PLEASE share your knowledge in the comments, otherwise it will hit this page if I ever find out :-)

I found out about a file that covers A LOT of information on a persons military service. I've seen it called the "death file" and some acronym that made so much sense that I can't remember, so I'll be googling "death file" soon and hope I find the site I found it on the first time.. Pretty sure everyone has had this happen... you follow one thread, thru so many website, you have no clue where you came thru and somewhere in the travels was a very interesting website you want to get back to, but there is no way to retrace your steps.... Yeah, that's what happened there too.

And there is, of course the DPAA website where the first notification of an Accounted for Soldier is made. Sometimes they give everything in the first sitting, sometimes it's a bit of a search to find it all, but overall, it's interesting and SO good that the soldiers are still coming home.  Whether done by volunteers of paid employees, I can't help but think "Thank you" every time I find a memorial... 

In a small way, I like to help families that do not have the chance to come see where their loved one was being cared for. There's that absolute thrill when you can put the Soldiers' story together from enlistment, thru his campaigns, his death and the places that were part of his travel before ending up in a Military Cemetery...  I enjoy that as much as when I find family, because I KNOW that by me putting those loose ends together, a family member has a chance to fill in the story of the Soldier that didn't come home.

The reason I'm hunting down the x-numbers, is that sometimes in the announcement, the x-number is given, but not the cemetery the soldier was buried at, or if the cemetery is mentioned, there is no mention of the grave site... Now I'm (most of the time, because things DO slip thru the cracks while entering/collecting information) about the details in my research, and it just seems like there's a bit missing that way..... It feels to me like the place where the Soldier was resting before he was identified, is just as important to his story, as his service and his ultimate place of burial. The file atached to the x-numbers, also should have his "in between" resting place and where he was initially found, and, again.... that is important to his story :-)

Going to Ardennes soon to get a start at the Unknown markers, meanwhile, while it's too hot  to move, I get to play and do the research :-)


 

 

Almost made it a month......

 but it wasn't my fault that I caved!  Honest!  Yeah, I wouldn't believe me either, not totally at least :-)

You see, 2 weeks ago, I discovered that a friend adopted a grave at the Military Cemetery in Margraten. We got to talking and he mentioned that he was trying to find more of the personal life of "his" soldier, but hadn't been able to. So I offered to do a little research for him.  You see? Totally being helpful! ROFL.  

Well, did a little digging, and found some stuff,  and found a little more every evening and that started me wondering if I could spare an hour or so, checking out the family tree that had my grandpa in it..... and it quickly escalated into an allweekender. Litterally,  haven't slept since Friday.... I'm dead on my feet, but IT WAS SOOOOO MUCH FUN!!!!  While looking, I was verifying information I already found, so the progress is not really huge, but to have corroborating information is satisfying....  Some information I had, but I hadn't sourced it, so where ever I found it, doesn't matter, I now have a source for it. I also found a couple of sources, that didn't have the information the source referred to, so I did the right thing, and mentioned the source cited in my notes with the mention that it had "this" information, not the information it referred to. so, either it will prove that the information is somewhere else, and it was just entered wrong,  in which case I will use the main source and dig thru the rest of it to see what I can find, or I'm going to have a long road ahead of me, because I won't be able to trust the information on the site....

And that brings me to a pet peeve of mine in people putting things on the internet, and others taking it at facevalue and running with it, without verifying information/sources. With this kind of information "Trust but verify" should be a way of life! :-)

Well, it's 23.00 and I'm going to find a pillow for a bit.... busy day tomorrow.

June 9, 2025

I'm SO screwed!

   I have a "to do" list that's a mile long, a mountain of paperwork that could gag a maggett and I just found living family from my dad's father........ This is not good. So far, I have been able to not go to the website and fill in the blanks, but it's hard :-)

The only thing I used to know, was that granddad was born in 's-Hertogenbosch (Den Bosch) and baptized in the St. Jan Cathedral. He had 14 siblings, and one brother went to the US. Grandpa's family went to Australia, except for dad. That's it.... I found records in the archives and was piecing things together, when Mike's health started to make "fun time" a luxury, that we would rather spend together, and holed up upstairs, mired in papers, so it has been on hold. By accident, I found information on a cousins Heritage site, and now I'm having all kinds of hives because I want to start digging again.....  I keep telling myself I need to get thru the current crap before entertaining doing research, but I'm afraid it's a question of "when" rather than "if" I cave..... I'll keep you posted :-)

 

Don't forget to hug a loved one!!!

May 12, 20125