Almost made it a month......

 but it wasn't my fault that I caved!  Honest!  Yeah, I wouldn't believe me either, not totally at least :-)

You see, 2 weeks ago, I discovered that a friend adopted a grave at the Military Cemetery in Margraten. We got to talking and he mentioned that he was trying to find more of the personal life of "his" soldier, but hadn't been able to. So I offered to do a little research for him.  You see? Totally being helpful! ROFL.  

Well, did a little digging, and found some stuff,  and found a little more every evening and that started me wondering if I could spare an hour or so, checking out the family tree that had my grandpa in it..... and it quickly escalated into an allweekender. Litterally,  haven't slept since Friday.... I'm dead on my feet, but IT WAS SOOOOO MUCH FUN!!!!  While looking, I was verifying information I already found, so the progress is not really huge, but to have corroborating information is satisfying....  Some information I had, but I hadn't sourced it, so where ever I found it, doesn't matter, I now have a source for it. I also found a couple of sources, that didn't have the information the source referred to, so I did the right thing, and mentioned the source cited in my notes with the mention that it had "this" information, not the information it referred to. so, either it will prove that the information is somewhere else, and it was just entered wrong,  in which case I will use the main source and dig thru the rest of it to see what I can find, or I'm going to have a long road ahead of me, because I won't be able to trust the information on the site....

And that brings me to a pet peeve of mine in people putting things on the internet, and others taking it at facevalue and running with it, without verifying information/sources. With this kind of information "Trust but verify" should be a way of life! :-)

Well, it's 23.00 and I'm going to find a pillow for a bit.... busy day tomorrow.

June 9, 2025

I'm SO screwed!

   I have a "to do" list that's a mile long, a mountain of paperwork that could gag a maggett and I just found living family from my dad's father........ This is not good. So far, I have been able to not go to the website and fill in the blanks, but it's hard :-)

The only thing I used to know, was that granddad was born in 's-Hertogenbosch (Den Bosch) and baptized in the St. Jan Cathedral. He had 14 siblings, and one brother went to the US. Grandpa's family went to Australia, except for dad. That's it.... I found records in the archives and was piecing things together, when Mike's health started to make "fun time" a luxury, that we would rather spend together, and holed up upstairs, mired in papers, so it has been on hold. By accident, I found information on a cousins Heritage site, and now I'm having all kinds of hives because I want to start digging again.....  I keep telling myself I need to get thru the current crap before entertaining doing research, but I'm afraid it's a question of "when" rather than "if" I cave..... I'll keep you posted :-)

 

Don't forget to hug a loved one!!!

May 12, 20125  

Henri-Chapelle

I saw the other day that my claims to take pictures at Henri-Chapelle had expired. This spurred me on to actually get out of my funk of the last week or so, and get to "work". The weather forecast for Monday was nice, so I dressed accordingly, brought 2 bottles of water and some snacks and made sure my tank was full, because between navigation on my phone, it's understanding of backroads (most of the time it sends me the scenic route aka over hell and high water), and my patience with either is not conducive to short trips, even if the inital trip should only take 30 minutes :-) but I digress.....

As always, the peacefull quiet was welcome and after just sitting for a little bit, and being told that the parking lot was for visitors only, I figured I better hop to it. The first part went swimmingly. Section C, E and F got done pretty quickly. There weren't very many in those sections :-)  Section H was were the fun started.... For some reason, my camera's battery went empty in no time (and I had forgotten my powerbank) I ran the car for a bit, but thought that was kindof silly, so I switched to my old little Panasonic. It's was giving me problems (after 10 short years!) and that's why Mike bought me the current one about 4 years ago, but I figured I could try..... Well, I went thru 3 batteries on it, and the last one gave up right after the last picture I needed, and before I could get a nice shot of Section F.

When I got home, I realized that all the pictures taken with the little one, were no good. I knew the sensor was going out, giving some really wonky effects on pictures, which made me giggle most of the time, but I hadn't been aware that it didn't focus right, so instead of seeing a little bit of the markers around the main one, they were all blurry, so I retook those today.

Monday I had seen flowers at the graves of 2 brothers, buried side by side, and I hoped they would be still there, as the cenotaph mentioned the sad line at the bottom of the marker that the boys are buried in foreign soil, as if that meant they were forgotten....  




I know that in Margraten, all the graves have been adopted and there is a sizeable waitinglist, but a lot of the families transfer the adoption to their children. I was there a couple of years ago, and this grandfather was telling his grandson all about the soldier they were there to see, how to make sure the grass around the base of the cross was clear, and to wipe down the marker if needed. He went on to tell the story of how the cemetery came to be, and why it was important to remember and care for "their" American. The little boy was paying attention, and told his grandpa very earnestly that, yes, he would take care of their soldier, just like greatgrandpa, grandpa, and his dad had done. It gave me chills, and I had to walk away before I just went over there and hugged the both of them. (The Dutch are not into hugs from strangers, so it was better that way)

Having been going to Henri Chapelle more frequently the last year or so, I noticed that the policy for leaving flowers is a little more relaxed, and you can see flowers at various gravesites throughout the year, not just around Memorial Day. It is very nice to see, and I would like to find a way to let families know that their kin is not forgotten by the people they helped liberate, and their sacrifice is not going unappreciated, so if I see that there are flowers at a marker, I take a picture and post it to their memorial, even if there is already one there.

I got all but 6 of the Unknown markers photographed, and I have about 5 to sort out, because in Section H, as in Section G the markers on the end of the rows are all unknown, so if you look down, that's all you see. It's a staggering sight.


 

Rounding off this post with some pictures I've taken over the last couple of weeks....

Not sure if he's family, but on the off chance......










April 9, 2025




CHILLS!!

My friend David sent me a video that drills home several things, that every member of the Armed Forces and everyone researching their family already knows......

History is more than  names and dates

FREEDOM COMES AT A PRICE MOST PEOPLE ARE NOT WILLING TO PAY THEMSELVES

Service men and woman are not the only ones serving our country. Their families are too!

The final story of Private First Class Harold B McCarn

To hear the story told by a family member, to see the images I only heard about.... it is impressive and humbling.  Having said that and speaking as the history geek that I am.   Enjoy this glimpse in history very few are aware of, because in view of sensibility (as it was explained to me at Henri Chapelle) these images and stories are not freely shared by the cemeteries where family members are cared for.  When told that "The fallen were moved from their temporary resting place to the permanent cemetery" you can imagine and visualize, up to a point at least,  but actually seeing some of the images, brings it home on a whole different level. To hear the whole process explained makes the already impressive cemeteries even more so, because of the sheer dedication of those who actually built them, so that these soldiers may rest in the peace they sacraficed everything for to establish..... But it also shows a side that few people even realise is very real. For every fallen soldier, every cross in the cemeteries, for every name on the Walls of the Missing, a family lost a son, a husband, a fiancee, a father,  a brother, a friend  or an uncle. They had to carry on their life without a very important part of their hearts. We should not forget that, just as we should never forget those who paid the ultimate price for the freedoms we enjoy.

They never came home...... 

 The high price of Freedom

 



April 1, 2025


Updated information....

Well, more of a "non-date" LOL!

A migraine yesterday, quickly followed by a panic attack, kinda put me in a chair for today, so I did what I haven't done in while and checked my email..... Nothing earthshattering, so moved on to checking my newly returned external drive. Most of the 3 TB was recoverable, except any emails I saved, so that's a problem for my family tree information.... You really gotta love this forced digital age. As with a lot of "It's new and let's make everybody use it" attitude, the principle is great! No paper, so no trees chopped down, so possibly cleaner air and better climate, but the reality is.... paper doesn't lock up and denies access to what's on it!  But that is a pet peeve of mine that has nothing to do with researching the family tree or putting in time updating/starting memorials on Find A Grave or doing the same for people that ask :-)

So, my schedule changed from going to Henri Chapelle today to doing some serious Vegging on the couch and going to Belgium tomorrow. Still have to fill up before I go to far, still have to remember to bring my water and snacks and still have to set the crockpot for dinner, just on a different day.  

However, by checking the new drive, I found that I will not have enough waking hours coming up to go thru all information collected, to put it in an order that I can use to refill the Family tree in Reunion, because, yep! That was one of the very few files that could not get recovered, soooooo ...... back to re-entering about 3000 people with all the extra information available, trying to rebuild my "filing"system, because a lot of the stuff was just jammed on the drive without too much organizing. Not sure I'm up for it, but we'll see.

Just testing a theory here, and needed a post to do it, so, sorry for just jabbering :-)

Don't forget to hug a loved one!!

Love and hugs :-)     

 

March 23, 2925   

I went outside and learned things........

Well, actually...... I learned a couple of things, although some should have already been clear :-)

- Don't forget your waterbottle and snacks when you go cemetery walking

- Don't dress for a blizzard in a heatwave

- Don't assume you're in the same shape you were at this time last year

Those were the Gimme's, and not why you're here, so let me get to the point.

 I went to Henri Chapelle American Cemetery to take pictures of the markers for the Unknown. While there, there was a group of veterans so I tried to stay away from their quiet sermons, while trying to see where/if they left flowers by markers, and after they left, I took pictures of the markers, with the flowers. There's something about seeing flowers on a gravesite that brings home that even though they are long gone, these men are not forgotten, and if I can be a small part in the remembering and honoring their sacrefice, I'm happy to help, so unless there are already pictures with flowers of the markers, I'll be adding them. I haven't figured out how to drag my "office" with me on these trips, so I usually just take my camera and the paper with the information for markers to take pictures of, so there's no checking while there, and I end up erring on the side of caution and just taking the pictures. LOL!

There are 98 markers without a name but "Known only to God" at Henri Chapelle. The things I learned about them are as follows:

The families (as far as their where about were known) were notified when the Soldiers were going to be transferred from the temporary graveyards they had been buried during the war, to their final resting place at the Military Cemeteries. This was the only time, they had the option of bringing their loved one home, or leave them. Sometimes it wasn't much of a choice, as the cost of bringing their loved one home was for the family, but why so many fallen stayed, is not something anybody can say for certain. None of the Unknown, obviously, were brought home, and are cared for by the Military Cemeteries. I believe this is true for all cemeteries, as I received the same information from the office at Margraten.

Even though repatriation of fallen soldiers is no longer an option for those still here, not all markers for the Unknown are marking a gravesite anymore. Thru DPAA, remains are still exhumed for identification. I was told by another cemtery that the soldiers in "unprotected" areas have priority to be brought home, over the fallen interred in National Cemeteries, but as I found out yesterday, that does not hold true and is part of attempts to give everybody that made the ultimate sacrafice a name on their marker.  The website has various ways of searching, and there are identifications listed as recent as March of this year.

What was obvious, was also that for everybody that gets that Rosette on a wall of the Missing, chances are an unknown soldier gets brought home.......  Or so I optimistically thought. In checking for the x-numbers of those with a rosette, a lot of the recently identified have been found where they fell 80 years ago. (I'll be adding a list under "The Fallen".  My understanding is whether the markers will be removed as remains get identified, or they will receive a Rosette like the men on the Wall of the Missing is still being debated.  Personally, I hope they just add the Rosette, and leave the markers. It's only fitting to show the progress in bringing the soldiers home.

Since there was no service number to attach to the files, every Unknown Soldier received an X-number. The information attached to this number is being kept by the Army. When they established the permanent Cemetery, they documented everything about the men interred but when they left the cemetery in hands of Battle Monuments, they took all the records with them, (Army property and possible classified information) so all personnel after has been trying to put the records back together. This results in varying degrees of information, because some records are available, some not, and than there's the infamous fire of 1973, wiping out the majority of records.

I asked about the latest entry on the wall of the missing, and how come nobody missed him until recently, and was told that the remains attributed to the soldier were always questioned as to actually belonging to him but the determination was deemed over 90% accurate, so he was buried under the name attributed to him. DNA tests finally answered that question in the negative. So as of about 2 weeks ago, there is a new name on the Wall of the missing.... Robert James Marsh. The missing members of his crew are on the wall in Henri Chapelle, the members that were retrieved are interred in Margraten. The lady in the office could not say why this was.  

 I can't help but feel for the family of Robert. They had closure for so long, only to be left lost as to the fate of their loved one. My heart hurts for them as their pain comes as a cost to another family finally getting closure. (I will see if I can get the whole story and if it is OK to post it here)

When I asked about the Rosettes on the wall of the Missing, because there seemed to be more than the last time I was there, and had taken pictures, she said that there were still remains found and identified. She also stated that the last burial in Henri Chapelle was of a soldier found in the woods about 20 miles away.... in 2002. Currently the Wall of the Missing sports 75 Rosettes, that means 75 Service Members are now accounted for. (I will ask who the soldier was that was identified)

Since I didn't get "done" I'll be heading back in a couple of days to see about the markers left on the list, and with a(nother) list of questions for the poor sap stuck in the office :-)  

I don't know about you, but everytime I think I am finding answers, my brain comes up with an (almost) equal amount of questions. Haven't figured that one out yet, don't think I'm going to try, come to think of it..... Sleeping dogs, and all that. ROFL!!

Talk soon? Don't forget to hugs your loved ones!


March 20, 2025






I did a bad thing...... kinda, sorta

ROF

I subscribed to Ancestry for a discounted price and forgot to cancel because of all the stuff going on and was too late to cancel the second part, because of the same reason, so now, I have an overload on information to get thru, because I collected as much as I could, while I could..... Now I just have to remember to cancel in time, so I can get started on sorting thru the information I found and parking it with the right person/family....

REALLY not a bad problem to have, just feels like a really blonde move on my part.... but that's a personal problem and has nothing to do with family history :-)

IF I don't make it back before the Holidays, Have a Blessed Chrismas, with all the people you treasure to celebrate with and an equally great 2025.  Enjoy what and who you have in your life, celebrate achievements as they happen and don't sweat the small stuff, because life is too short.

T 

December 13, 2024he storyline is good, the characters interesting, but the execution is somehow a bit off. Besides the fact that clues in the beginning of the story somehow foresee the direction of the investigation threequarters thru, is only one of the inconsistencies. The story weaves around interesting theories but ends up with a suspect that should have been picked up on in the beginning, and there are several spots where the same scene is worded different, right after eachother. It's a shame, really, because I really liked the premise, however,it's the first book in a series, and I'm going to give the others a try, assuming this is just growing pains of starting a new character with new challenges and the author is still finetuning the narrative.

The storyline is good, the characters interesting, but the execution is somehow a bit off. Besides the fact that clues in the beginning of the story somehow foresee the direction of the investigation threequarters thru, is only one of the inconsistencies. The story weaves around interesting theories but ends up with a suspect that should have been picked up on in the beginning, and there are several spots where the same scene is worded different, right after eachother. It's a shame, really, because I really liked the premise, however,it's the first book in a series, and I'm going to give the others a try, assuming this is just growing pains of starting a new character with new challenges and the author is still finetuning the narrative.